5 Tips for a Smooth and Successful Newborn Session with a Toddler in Tow| Miami Newborn Photographer

Welcoming a newborn into the world is an exciting time, filled with sweet moments and memories that will last a lifetime. But when there’s a toddler in the picture, planning a newborn photo session can feel a bit more challenging. Toddlers are naturally curious, energetic, and have their own little personalities—so how can you capture those precious newborn moments while keeping your toddler happy and engaged? As a Miami newborn photographer, I've worked with many families who have both a newborn and a toddler, and I've gathered a few tried-and-true tips to ensure your session goes smoothly.

Here are 5 tips to help make your newborn photo session a success, even with a toddler around!

1. Plan Ahead and Set Realistic Expectations

The key to a successful session is setting expectations for both your toddler and yourself. Toddlers have a limited attention span and can get easily overwhelmed or distracted. While newborns are generally more cooperative, toddlers often need a bit more flexibility in terms of timing and involvement. Communicate any concerns you may have about your toddler— is he extra shy? Does she have the wiggles? Knowing these things ahead of time can help me come up with a game plan for the session. Together, we will set a realistic expectation for how much time we will spend posing, how many breaks will be taken, and how much of the focus will be on your toddler.

Pro Tip: Choose a time for the session when your toddler is well-rested and fed to help them stay calm and cooperative during the shoot.

2. Bring Familiar Comfort Items for Your Toddler

Toddlers often feel more at ease when they have something familiar in a new setting, and that includes during a photoshoot. Bring along their favorite stuffed animal, blanket, or toy to make them feel more comfortable and less apprehensive. If your session is at home, prepare an area in your home where your toddler can go for a break. A little snack can also help calm them down and keep them engaged while your newborn is being photographed. Familiar items can also be used as props during the session, which helps make the photos more personal and meaningful.

Pro Tip: A simple activity like coloring or playing with a toy nearby can keep your toddler entertained while the photographer works on capturing the newborn moments.

3. Involve Your Toddler in the Session

This is hands down my favorite way to photograph toddlers with their new sibling. It will not only create beautiful family memories but will also make them feel more included and special. They’ll likely enjoy being involved, especially if they’re given simple tasks, like gently holding their baby sibling’s hand or kissing them on the cheek. Some parents like to do a sibling shot where the toddler can interact with the newborn, such as sitting next to them or holding a sign that says “big brother” or “big sister.” The more involved they feel, the more likely they are to cooperate.

Pro Tip: Capture candid moments of your toddler interacting with their new sibling—those authentic, unscripted moments are often the most precious.

4. Take Breaks and Be Flexible

Newborn sessions are typically calm and slow-paced, but toddlers are a different story! We will always take breaks when necessary. Toddlers might get tired, cranky, or distracted at times, and that’s perfectly okay. Flexibility is key. I work with the temperament of your toddler at that moment and will quickly change gears if needed.

Pro Tip: Let your toddler run around or play for a few minutes to release some energy before getting back into the photo session.

5. Keep It Fun and Lighthearted

Toddlers thrive when the atmosphere is fun and relaxed. The more at ease they feel, the more likely they are to cooperate and smile for the camera. Instead of pushing your toddler to “pose” or sit still for long periods, focus on creating a playful, enjoyable environment. Try to refrain from looking at your toddler to make sure they are giving their “real” smile (you know what I’m talking about, right?!). Instead, let them explore a bit, tell jokes, or sing songs with them to get a natural smile. The more fun they have, the more authentic and beautiful your photos will be.

Pro Tip: I will guide your toddler with gentle prompts or fun interactions to encourage natural smiles and happy expressions. Easier said than done, but don’t worry about your toddler’s behavior or smile— simply be present with your newly grown family!

Incorporating a toddler into a newborn photo session can be a challenge, but it’s also a wonderful opportunity to capture the bond between siblings and document this special time for your family. With a little planning, flexibility, and a relaxed approach, you’ll be able to create beautiful images that reflect your family’s unique love and connection.

Have any of these tips helped ease your worries about the session? Share your own experiences or additional tips below—I’d love to hear from you!